How to Find Your LoveSt. Valentine’s Day is another reason for couples to express their love and receive it. However, those who have just separated and nearly lost chance to find the love of their lives, will not enjoy this holiday that much. Needless to say that everything around us including men with flowers, romantic melodramas on TV and hearty gifts on the 14th of February reminds them of their loneliness or unlucky romantic experience. On the other hand, Valentine’s Day can be treated as the day on which New Year of Love begins. And here is a list of Love’s New Year resolutions helping you to find your soul mate and become happier than you were last year.
1. Enjoy life!This is a quite general advice. Indeed, it is difficult to follow it. Loneliness is not a visitation, and a status of relationships is by no means your identity. Having no partner gives plenty of time to spend on your favorite hobbies, to try something new, to extend your boundaries and discover yourself. The world around is so captivating. Once you focus on our amazing beautiful world or the things you love to do, you’ll start enjoying life attracting the right person according to the Law of Attraction saying that like attracts like.
2. PlanningFinding love is a project of your life requiring a strategic approach. Think over a type of a partner you want to meet. What are qualities you appreciate the most? What are his or her interests? By answering these questions you’ll be clear with your expectations. The next stage is defining where you can meet such person. Think whether you need to change places where you usually hang out and do not neglect dating sites where you can find a man or woman sharing your interests and hobbies.
3. Be socialThe logic is simple. The more connections you have, the greater is the opportunity to meet the person you are searching for. It is not infrequent that people who experienced divorce or difficult separation keep clear of possible relationships and, in particular, possible partners. They stay home all the time, get depressed and stick to this way of life thereby reducing their chances to meet a good partner.
Leave past in the past
The question starting with ‘Why?’ is very sticking and usually has no answers as regards to previous relationships. Why did he or she cheat on me? Why did everything go wrong so suddenly? Why did not he marry me? Why did it happen to me? Such kind of never-ending analysis taking place in your mind will have no positive effect and hold you back. In case you were hurt, forgive your ex and try to keep on living with hope to be happy with another man or woman. Trust me it is possible!
You can enlarge your list with other resolutions and with peace in mind congratulate those who do love you and you love them. I mean your parents, children and friends. That will be a good start of the New Year of Love.